Attachment Style Test: How Do You Bond?

A text to your partner goes unanswered for hours. You:

• Assume they're busy; I'll hear from them soon.
• Check the chat three times and start drafting.
• Honestly? A bit relieved to get the afternoon back.
• Depends on the week — sometimes I spiral, sometimes I shrug.

Getting close to someone new feels like:

• Exciting, mostly. I open up at a normal pace.
• Wonderful and terrifying — what if they leave?
• Nice, as long as I keep my own space.
• Different every time; I never know which me shows up.

Your ideal amount of time together in a relationship:

• A lot, but with room for my own life.
• As much as possible — togetherness is the point.
• Quality over quantity, and plenty of me-time.
• It swings: glued one week, off the grid the next.